How to Tell If a Girl Likes You as More Than a Friend

Read more about signs that a girl likes you here.

Sometimes, a girl may add you on social media because she wants to open up every opportunity for you to talk to her. If she likes your photos, comments on your statuses, or interacts with you otherwise on the internet, she may just be inviting you to interact with her in real life.

She Puts Her Phone Away When You’re Around

Now it doesn’t necessarily mean that she’s into you, but there’s a damn good chance that she is. This one’s subtle, but you can definitely feel it. A girl’s body language can tell you a lot, especially if you’ve been hanging out for a while.

She’s just not into you. And don’t think you can sway her by talking yourself up or negging her or doing whatever other dumb PUA technique you read about from some blog post written in 2009. It won’t work, and you’ll just come off as a desperate, creepy dude.

There just might be a bit of a wait if I get flooded with questions when I’m busy doing other things. Long before you move on to kissing and other physical interactions, there will always be at least some intimacy even at the early stages of the relationship. A girl who likes you will not be able to resist touching you, and that’s exactly how you can tell she’s interested. A conversation between a man and a woman is a two-way street, and if all she wants to talk about is herself, it likely means that she is not only not interested in you, but is self-obsessed and possibly a narcissist. That’s not a great start for any relationship.

Every girl has a different sense of style, and not all girls will try to dress as aforementioned when they like somebody.
All women are different.
It would be a shame to lose her if you make a move she considers inappropriate.

This is a really great article. I’m a girl and I have definitely used some of these tricks on text/chat. Enjoyed reading it all.

When a girl likes you, you will become her go-to person for her problems. Be it life advice, questions about a class she is having difficulty with or even random things like which ice-cream flavour is truly the best. She will always want to know about your thoughts and opinions on things. This means that she respects and values your opinion on things. The phrase normally goes “you snooze, you lose”.

The way to know if a girl likes you lies in some really simple signs that you can pick up if you’re paying attention. On a slight tangent, notice that when girls post pics with guys who they’re not in relationships with they’ll usually make a point of letting everyone know he’s just a friend in the post, they’ll say something like ‘Had a great time with my brother from another mother today! ’ and that’s because they don’t want anyone to possibly think they’re being a whore. That’s how important it is to them to look a certain way and that’s also why you should take real notice of any interest they outwardly show you.

Not to worry—we’ve got your back. Not sure if you spotted the signs a girl likes you? Try giving her a cute tee. Does she put on Bleachers at her apartment party the week after you recommended she listen to them? If a girl shows she’s curious about your passions, she’s probably trying to get to know you better and develop some common interests.

Noticing several of these signs is clearly very helpful when you are trying to figure out if a girl likes you as more than just friends, but the picture grows ever clearer the more you see these things repeated. Big, showy gestures have their place (we’re never going to complain if a guy sweeps us off to Paris on a mini-break…), but when a girl wants to show that she likes someone, it’ll be through the little details rather than anything grand. If she is holding a drink, for example, and gently stirring it whilst maintaining eye contact with you, it’s more likely to be a sign that she is relaxed and open to you as a person. And she won’t just listen to reply like many people do in casual conversation, her responses will be thoughtful, show interest, and make you feel listened to.

She could just be super friendly and touchy-feely. That’s her baseline behavior. But let’s say a woman isn’t super friendly and touchy-feely with people, but she is with you. Well, that’s an anomaly that indicates possible attraction. Now a socially inept boob of a guy will memorize a list like this, and anytime he sees a woman display any of these signals he’ll immediately assume that she’s attracted to him sexually.